Getting Down to Business

     The Virginia Aquarium and Marine Science Center is in Virginia Beach, Virginia. They have a website, LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube page. The aquarium regularly communicates via its social media sites, and its website appears to be updated with current information and events. Additionally, the pages seem to be linked, with the exception of LinkedIn and YouTube, so information is distributed across all platforms, thus reaching a larger audience. 

   The top of the website features the Virginia Aquarium and Marine Science Center logo. It has some quick, useful links for planning your visit and purchasing tickets. A search function is available, and a small widget displays the aquarium's hours for that day. Most people visiting the website are likely considering a trip to the aquarium, and these are helpful items to place at the top of the page where they are easily accessible. Towards the middle of the page, you can find several upcoming events. The bottom of the page contains the address, links to social media sites, and a list of links to accreditations, policies, the board member portal, and more. These links are for a specific audience, and placing them at the bottom of the page makes sense.

Overall, the Virginia Aquarium and Marine Science Center does a good job of communicating online. It has a distinct identity as a fun place to visit that strives to protect the environment and inspire a sustainable future. 

To digital or not to digital?

Me, circa 1989

    As an "elder millennial," I find it difficult to determine whether I’m a digital native or a digital immigrant. While I was exposed to technology growing up, most of my K-12 education involved traditional methods such as chalkboards and textbooks. However, my college experience has primarily been online. Despite the convenience of online classes, I'd still prefer to be in a physical classroom. I have a preference for physical textbooks, and when digital reading is required, I tend to print out the material. Having the physical papers in hand helps me stay focused on the reading.

    Digital learning and research can face significant challenges due to the presence of misinformation and the use of artificial intelligence. As you conduct more academic research, you'll find it easier to identify trustworthy sources. As students and professionals in our field, the Communicating Online course is teaching us diverse techniques to showcase our research in a digital format.

  

  It's important to note that just because someone is comfortable using technology doesn't necessarily mean they're digitally literate. Many individuals may use technology proficiently in their daily lives but struggle to apply it effectively in an educational setting. According to Kirschner, a study published by Kennedy and Fox in 2013 discovered that students utilize a diverse range of technologies to communicate, learn, stay connected with friends, and interact with their surroundings. However, it was noted that they are primarily using technology for ‘personal empowerment and entertainment, but not always digitally literate in using technology to support their learning.”

Stairway to Friendship

 

therainmakercompanies.com

Knapp’s Relational Model was developed by professor and researcher Mark L. Knapp as a “theoretical model for relational enhancement which routes the interpersonal development between two people.” This model outlines the process of how relationships are established, maintained, and sometimes terminated. The model consists of ten stages that are categorized into two broader stages: “Coming together” and “Coming apart.” Relationships are built in the “Coming together” stage: Initiating, Experimenting, Intensifying, Integrating, and Bonding. On the contrary, relationships end in the “Coming apart” stage: Differentiating, Circumscribing, Stagnating, Avoiding, and Terminating. The following YouTube video (starting at 1:30) by Hope Churchill describes and gives examples of the various stages.

I have been friends with my best friend since 2007, when we were stationed together on the USS George H. W. Bush. We have shared many good and bad times, from sleeping on each other's couches to being roommates and then living on our own. During a portion of that time, my friend was in a long-term relationship with a boyfriend who I disliked for several reasons. It felt as if our relationship was in the circumscribing stage but many of the boundaries in our relationship were there because of her boyfriend. A few years later, she got out of that relationship and we were back to the bonding stage. I even moved into her spare room while preparing to transfer to a new duty station in Washington State. During my time living in Washington, we were able to visit each other 2-3 times, and while online communication was an available option, we mainly communicated through text messages and the occasional phone call. Now that I’m back on the East Coast, we see each other more frequently but not as often as either of us would like since we’re still about 5 hours apart. I feel that we exist in a relational maintenance phase that goes between bonding and differentiating. 

We live very separate lives, but when we’re together, it’s like we were never apart. We even went on a weekend trip to see LCD Soundsystem last month. 

The Company You Keep

    The vast array of social networking or social media sites available today provide many options, each tailored to specific needs. From keeping up with the latest celebrity news to networking for career opportunities, dating, and sharing creative works, these platforms offer diverse features to meet varying interests and, when used responsibly, can be a powerful tool. 

Social media provides a place to build like-minded communities to share experiences, knowledge, and humor. My favorite Facebook group is Wild Green Memes for Ecological Fiends, an “online community across multiple social media platforms with a focus on humorous wildlife and environmental content.” 

A Harvard School of Public Health study found that “the ways that people are using social media may have more of an impact on their mental health and well-being than just the frequency and duration of their use.” In my opinion, carefully choosing the content we see on social media can significantly impact our mental health, either positively or in a neutral manner. Populating your social media feeds with positive connections and valuable information can ensure a more joyful and enriching experience.

There is no ideal limit on the number of "friends" one should aim to have. Assigning a specific number would only create another unnecessary standard to fulfill. Frank Sonnenberg said it well: "You're only as good as the company you keep." The same principle can be applied to social media. It's important to surround yourself with individuals who positively impact and bring value to your life.